.However what Astrid does not understand yet is an honest truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who possesses 2 sons-- may vouch for: The simple fact that your relationship with your parents modifications as well as advances as you each get older, as well as ideally right. "Your world facilities around [your youngsters] when they're infants [and also] it is actually so much work but charming," O'Hara claims. "Later, you definitely miss out on that, since then you can not get them to do anything you desire them to accomplish, given that they begin creating their own thoughts, their own point of views." And eventually, you find yourself in the place O'Hara, whose children remain in their 20s and also 30s, finds herself now, able to learn from her youngsters. "They are actually simply such great young fellas," she says. "I am actually not their buddy, yet I like possessing talks with all of them and understanding how they deal with life.".